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By Corinne Sullivan Aug. In college, three different men — when asked whether or not we were exclusive — told me that they've just gotten out of serious relationships and weren't looking to commit to anything at the moment. One guy even answered the question of, "Are we officially dating?


The most important thing is knowing what you want, and if you're dating a person who refuses to commit, don't feel obligated to compromise somfone to stay with them. The best way to approach the conversation is to explain your own reasons for wanting an exclusive relationship.

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Communicate In A Non-Defensive Way You want to be careful to avoid making accusations when having this conversation as Been so long want to go all night. You are deserving of the type of relationship you desire. For example, rather than saying, "You shouldn't be dating other people," you can instead say, " I prefer the idea of dating someone exclusively rather than being with someone who sees other people.

Be curious Ask questions. Research shows the opposite, however, that people nearly always are willing to engage in a conversation when prompted by someone else. In college, three different men — when asked whether or not we were exclusive — told me that they've just gotten out of serious relationships and weren't looking to commit to anything at the moment.

Though it may not be something you're interested in, you might also consider suggesting to the other person that you spend a few months dating other people. A timeline, however, is something you can give to yourself but share with the person you're dating. Choose The Right Time To Have The Conversation Just as you shouldn't bring up dating exclusively when you two are drinking or fornicating, you should consider what else is going on in both your life and the other person's life before you initiate.

A question can either kick off a conversation or keep it going, Sandstrom says. Research actually suggests that people who ask more questions are better liked by their conversation partners than people who ask fewer questions.

I reached out to Stef Safranmatchmaking and dating expert, and Anita Chlipaladating and relationships expert, to find out how to best initiate a conversation about being exclusive with someone you're dating. If someone doesn't want the same thing, then you need to remind yourself that compromising your needs isn't your only option.

Quarrel concept Shutterstock There's a big different between a timeline Christmas alone sucks a deadline. Focusing the attention on the other person in those moments can help us get past those awkward spots, she says. The other person may just like the idea of ho other people rather than actually doing it, and by having that freedom, they may find that they don't actually want it.

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You can say, "If I spend three months dating someone, then I like the relationship to be exclusive by that point. One guy even answered the question of, "Are we officially dating? For example, finals week is not ideal.

Forget it. You get better at asking better questions, and answering with more interesting responses. She researches how people navigate their social worldsincluding how language and mental capacity influences interactions.

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More like this. Focus on using the word "I" rather than "you" so that it's clear you're not trying to control either the person or the convo. If that's the case, you should find out sooner rather than later. Positive Caucasian guy making peace with her anger black girlfriend. It can be a matter of STDs or discomfort or jealousy, and any reason you wantiny is perfectly valid.

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It doesn't even have to be about sex — if you want to date someone exclusively, you should talk to your partner about your reasoning and your needs. Either of your birthdays is not great. So if you were thinking about bringing up the relationship talk while the two of you are out at a bar or mid-coitus, I wouldn't recommend it. It also might be the case that the person you're dating is simply never going to commit.

A deadline is usually something that's imposed on someone else, and if you tell someone, "You need to give me an Lonely mature Shelburne by Wednesday or we're done," that person probably isn't going to be too eager to DTR. That way, the focus is not on what the other person is being denied by committing.

Even if nothing major is going on in your life at the moment, be considerate of the other person's schedule as well. Give someone a compliment It shifts the focus to the other person and should make them feel good, Sandstrom explains.

Valentine's Day? They'll be much more receptive to the conversation if they aren't already feeling overwhelmed. By Corinne Sullivan Aug.

Create Your Own Timeline Interracial couple arguing in cafe. Explain Your Boundaries Unhappy lesbian couple sitting on sofa in living room Shutterstock Some people interpret the relationship conversation as a trap. Our fear assumptions fail to take into the social norms of politeness, Schroeder says.

When you're asked to be exclusive, you're essentially being asked to limit your opportunities and commit yourself exclusively to one person, which can sometimes seem scary in concept — especially if the person being asked has any doubts about how they feel. If they have a big paper to finish, a stressful presentation to give, or even just a really bad cold, wait until things have calmed down.

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